Seducing Women through Body Language

Body language is defined as a way to communicate using body movements or gestures. This includes the most subtle of movements that many people are not aware of; this may incorporate posture, smile, eye contact, your way of doing things and facial expressions which includes the winking and/or slight movement of the eyebrows. In addition, body language is the way you express your self and project your energy. It is considered as the most efficient way on making an effective effect to the other person’s mind.

Women are attracted to a man who knows what he wants and knows exactly what a woman wants; man who oozes confidence from every inch of his skin and follows through with action.

The tone of your voice also plays a significant role in your success with women. The essence of saying is not merely about the things you said but, how you say things. Speaking slowly, surely and more deeply would exactly attract women. Women love a very gentle and deep speaking voice. They find this to be very sexy and attractive.

The Basics of Body Language

Reflection of Self Confidence. A poised presentation of yourself invites others to regard you with respect. Stand stall, but not to the point of looking stiff. When sitting, always keep a straight back for avoidance of sloppy slouch. And when walking, move confidently at a steady pace – move moderately with your arms swinging freely at your sides.

Consider “respectful” touching. Perhaps, gentle and gracious touch on the arm is unlikely offensive but can serve as a friendly, bonding gesture.

Facial Relaxation. According to Glass, your face is responsible for about 75 percent of nonverbal communication. Your face draws your recent mood. A wrinkled forehead, perhaps, draws a critical image of your mood. For positive outlook that doesn’t intimidate, release the tension in your forehead, while also relaxing the muscles around your eyes, mouth and nose. And a smile with a genuine teeth showing can be of great help and of great contribution for you to appear relax and calm.

Eye Contact Consistency. To make an effective connection to the person, you must look at her face (focusing to her eyes) while you’re engaged in conversation. This will lead her to interpret your gestures that you are serious and interested.

Overcome Shyness. Remember that in this pace, this is not about you. Aside from being interesting, try to focus more on being interested in order to free your mind-set from the feeling of awkwardness. Don’t get self-conscious. Being self –conscious will put your confidence in vain.

Key Point to Remember:

“Confidence comes not from always being right but from not fearing to be wrong.”